BDE Moves, led by coach Whitni, offers relationship coaching for queer couples seeking to rebuild intimacy and strengthen their connection. Its signature offering, the 12-week Bed Death Eraser Program, is designed for partners who feel more like roommates than romantic partners or are struggling with differences in desire, communication, and closeness. The program focuses on the quality of connection rather than simply increasing sexual frequency.

Couples work on easing pressure and expectations, responding to rejection with curiosity, and creating intentional rituals that support individual well-being and shared joy. Whitni also helps partners develop vulnerable communication skills for difficult conversations and explore trauma-informed, mind-body approaches to building a secure, sensual relationship. The program aims to provide a safe, affirming space where each partner can express their needs and desires with trust and respect.

Prospective clients can apply for a private consultation to discuss their challenges and relationship goals. BDE Moves also offers resources, client reviews, a mailing list, and the Pleasure Menu eBook