Rafael Sontaya

Rafael Sontaya Ihlefeldt offers online relationship coaching and therapy for people seeking to break painful, recurring patterns and build a more fulfilling connection with themselves and others. He describes his professional background as an author, naturopath, osteopath, kinesiologist, relationship therapist, and systemic and somatic coach. His work supports clients with romantic relationships, family and friendships, and challenges involving the body or sense of purpose.

The coaching process includes exploring current and past relationships, identifying attachment patterns and conflict triggers, and working with unresolved experiences and emotional responses. Clients are guided toward healthier patterns, a more integrated sense of self, and lasting ways to address their needs in relationships. The website also presents focused offerings on fulfilling partnerships, reconnecting with the essential self, feminine integration, and masculine leadership and emotional engagement.

Sessions take place by phone or Zoom, making them accessible from anywhere. Prospective clients can request a free, non-binding introductory analysis conversation to discuss their needs, learn about the approach, and assess whether working together is a good fit.