Dr. Stan Tatkin

Stan Tatkin and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin offer relationship education and therapy grounded in neuroscience, attachment theory, and the principles of secure functioning. Their work helps couples understand how the nervous system shapes connection and conflict, and how partners can build a relationship that supports both people. Stan and Tracey provide private couple therapy in Los Angeles, alongside online courses, workshops, and small-group retreats.

The Win-Win Couple is a short course featuring practical exercises to help partners resolve disagreements more quickly, manage stress, and reach mutually satisfying outcomes. Their Wired for Love online workshop and retreat offer live group learning focused on attachment styles, decision-making, conflict repair, and creating a nurturing partnership. The site also shares relationship articles, videos, books, and other resources, and offers a directory for finding a PACT-trained therapist.

For clinicians, the PACT Institute provides training in Stan’s Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy, an integrative method drawing on attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and arousal regulation. Together, these services bring practical, science-based relationship tools to couples, individuals, families, and therapists