The Way it Really Is is a parenting blog founded by Nicole Prom, a mother of identical twins and an older son, and a former school psychologist with graduate degrees in education. Drawing on her family experience and professional background, Nicole offers honest, practical guidance for twin parents and families navigating everyday challenges. The site covers twin pregnancy, preparing for twins, the first year, raising twins, homeschooling, and twin motherhood, including health and parenting struggles.

Readers can also find content on food allergies and sensitivities, gluten-free recipes, children’s activities, and family life. To make routines more manageable, the blog provides ready-to-use printables such as planners, worksheets, and activity books. Its recommendations and shopping content includes gift guides, product reviews, deals, and comparison shopping, with sections for seasonal promotions and items Nicole’s family has tried.

The Way it Really Is aims to help overwhelmed parents feel better equipped through relatable experiences, useful resources, and ideas they can apply in daily life